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If it’s so simple, why is it so hard to live
Lately, my whole social media feed has shifted. It’s less about self-development and more about health. Real health. Evidence-based, data-backed, clear as day. Sleep matters. Water matters. Sunlight, movement, nature. Fresh, simple food. Nothing extreme. Nothing complicated. Just the basics. And the more I see it, the more I think…we already know this. So why aren’t we doing it? Because knowing and doing are two very different things. I know what it feels like to want the gla

Sue Stubbs
6 days ago


Sometimes Even the “Good” Things can Become Heavy.
There’s something I’ve been noticing lately. Even the things that are good for us… can start to feel heavy. Walking. Journaling. The gym. Self-development. Inner work. Helping others. All of these things have been a huge part of my life. They’ve helped me grow, shift, and become the person I am today. At some point, I realised they can quietly turn into something else. Not intentionally. Not overnight. But slowly. They go from being something we choose… to something we just d

Sue Stubbs
Apr 29


It Was Never About the Gym
There was a time in my life where I would have looked at someone exercising every day and thought, that’s a bit excessive. A bit obsessed. A bit… much. Funny how perspective changes. Because that same version of me was drinking most evenings, a couple of glasses of wine here, a few more there, and a couple of nights a week where it tipped a bit further. Nothing unusual, nothing extreme, just… normal life. Or at least, what felt normal at the time. Now, I move my body most day

Sue Stubbs
Apr 28


Jersey: The Place I Finally Learned to See
I’ve lived in Jersey all my life, and for most of it, I didn’t really see it. It was just where I lived, the backdrop to routine, the place I moved through while doing everything for everyone else. Work, life, responsibilities, the usual rhythm. And like so many of us, I thought I knew it, but I didn’t, not really. Something shifts as you get older, not overnight, not dramatically, just quietly. You begin to take small pockets of time for yourself, moments that don’t need

Sue Stubbs
Apr 23


The Reaction You Don’t Notice Is the One Running Your Life
Most people think stress comes from the big stuff . Work. Relationships. Money. Life doing its thing. But what if it’s not just that? What if it’s the tiny little moments, the ones you don’t even notice? You drop something,. Spill your coffee. Walk into the corner of something Can’t find your keys. And it’s instant… “Oh for f* sake.” Eye roll. Tension. Annoyance. No thought. Just reaction. Normal, right? That’s what I thought too. Until I really started noticing it. Because t

Sue Stubbs
Apr 7


The Unseen Power of The Sauna
There’s something quietly powerful about the sauna. SandyToes Sauna, St Brelade’s Bay, Jersey, CI I did a shift at SandyToes Sauna today, and as always, I walked away feeling like I’d witnessed something more than just people coming to get warm. It’s hard to explain unless you’ve experienced it, but there’s a certain kind of space that gets created, one where people soften. What strikes me most is that, in the sauna, everyone is the same. There are no job titles, no status, n

Sue Stubbs
Mar 30
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